Fixing a broken heart is never easy for many people. There is no quick way to stop the overwhelming feeling of disappointment and sadness. But giving up on love is not an option, especially if you want a long-term relationship. So how do you get through the pain and sadness of a broken heart? Here are some tips:
Face the pain in your heart, don’t just go around it. This may be the hardest thing to do for someone who just experienced a heartbreak, but it has to be done. There are no shortcuts. So if you feel sad because of a break-up, give yourself time to mourn by facing your feelings. Don’t let the pain make you run away from it.

Let go and celebrate your independence. Trying to fill the emptiness you feel after a breakup doesn’t have to involve rushing into a new relationship or trying too hard to get your old love back. Depending too much on your partner can make you feel anxious and afraid of losing them. Happiness should start within yourself, so when you’re heartbroken, try to enjoy your alone time first.
Make a list of your strengths. Recognize and write down your own strengths. You can also write about your past achievements in overcoming difficult situations. This list can remind you that you have the ability to get through your current heartbreak.

Laugh and cry. Don’t be afraid to do both, even if not at the same time. Try doing activities that can make you laugh. You can do silly things (as long as they don’t harm anyone) and if you still want to cry after doing something silly, then cry. Don’t be ashamed to show your emotions.
Exercise. Exercising can also help reduce your sadness. Do an exercise that you enjoy, such as swimming or even boxing. Physiologically, exercise can help release serotonin in the brain, which can stimulate the development of brain cells up to a person’s emotional level.

Create a new world. This is often difficult to do if you and your ex-partner work in the same place or have mutual friends. Although it’s difficult, it’s still possible to do. You can try things that you may like but have never tried before, like taking a yoga class, painting, or joining a book club. Program yourself to start anew without them.

Find hope within yourself. It’s undeniable that at the beginning of a breakup, we might feel afraid and anxious about the future. Try to forgive your ex-partner, yourself, and the relationship that couldn’t continue. Forgiving can help you think about the possibility of moving forward with your life.